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Don’t Be Facebook Friends With Jesus

Holy Cross - Thursday, September 08, 2011

Don’t Be Facebook Friends With Jesus 
Author: Sam Ludington

So I will preface this blog post by saying that I am not a fan of Facebook, in fact I would venture to say that I really don’t like the concept. I have an account, but I haven’t used it for over a year (partly because I forgot the password). I find Facebook to be unnecessarily intrusive, time consuming, creates a false sense of community, and most importantly I find that it has cheapened the understanding and appreciation for the term friend. I’ve heard all the arguments from Facebook supporters who champion its networking potential, the benefits of staying in contact with distant friends and family, and even its ability to serve as a marketing mechanism. All that being said, I still am unconvinced that Facebook is beneficial or even necessary.

But the real reason I dislike Facebook is because it has cheapened the term “Friend.” It gives the impression that being a friend simply requires clicking a button and accepting someone. At last count I had well over 650 “Friends”, but if asked I probably couldn’t identify three-quarters of these supposed “friends” of mine. Realistically, the term friend as defined by Facebook is at best an acquaintance, who we message occasionally on birthdays and special occasions, stay updated on their life based on changing status and profiles, and have determined their likes and dislikes based on what is indicated on their profile. Unfortunately sometimes we treat our friendship with Jesus as though it was another Facebook friend. We check in on Him occasionally, feeling especially inclined to do so on Christmas and Easter, give Him quick updates on our lives in 150 character or less prayers, and fail to invest in an intimate personal relationship with Him. In John 15:15 Jesus states, “I no longer call you servant because a servant does not know his masters business, instead I have called you friend: for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.” The fact that Jesus would call us friend is significant because his definition of friend is not the watered down Facebook definition. When Jesus calls us friend it implies sacrifice, desired intimacy, loyalty, and genuine love. He wants to be friends with you in the deepest meaning of the word, and the best news is that He has already sacrificed himself for that to be a reality. Romans 5:8 says, “God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners Christ died for us.” Jesus paid the ultimate price for your friendship, a legitimate relationship not just a Facebook friend… So accept His Friend Request!            

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